Wednesday, June 30

Before He Leaves

In the morning, the kids always come out of their room and crawl up on the couch next to (or on top of) their dad.


Within minutes Chloe is asking for breakfast and Evan usually joins her since he doesn't like to eat alone.

While they eat, Todd finishes getting ready to leave, and soon after that we are waving good-bye and blowing kisses through the window to Todd parked out front.

This window time seems so peaceful in a photo, but it is all noise as the kids yell "BYE DAD!!!! Have a good day!!!! Drive home safely!!!! SEE YA!!! LOVE YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"

I'm not sure how our neighbors feel about this moment before 8am each day, but I sure like it :-)

Thursday, June 24

Gone!


That didn't take long!

Evan pulled his super wiggly tooth out
at dinner time tonight.

We celebrated with chocolate
and an outside mud puddle party.

I may or may not have been a bit weepy
about this whole tooth-losing process...
but that's another story...

Wednesday, June 23

Simplicity



We value simplicity.




This past weekend we did a yardsale bigger than we ever have before (thanks to incredibly generous friends who 'donate' to us so we can resell). It was definitely not simple, but in the long run it contributed to our family in profits and in the ultimate clean-out of the house that occurred.


We recognize that our kids were all but ignored for days leading up to the sale, the whole day of the sale and the straightening up days following.

So we have begun the process of finding our balance as a family again.






For those four or five crazy days of 'ignoring' we figured there would be at least that many or more calm days owed to them to bring things back into balance. Without this make-up time we would have continued on feeling frustrated with no end in sight.

The kids were needy, whiny, tired, cranky, fighting and desperate. They needed attention, lots of it, and it wass draining when, as parents, we were just as needy, whiny, etc. but we weren't allowed to act on it.





We had to give to get back to where we wanted to be again.

Back to simple.

So we cuddled, we read, we played on the floor (even though we didn't feel like it sometimes). We refereed the many fights. We tried to stay calm and hug instead of blowing up and saying exactly how we felt. We spent our days doing nothing. Together.




We are now three days into it, and counting...... and the kids are finally okay with us doing some things without being right under foot all day long. That's progress!

Tuesday, June 22

Before Bedtime

they get a little wound up





Monday, June 21

With Wings



I made Chloe some wings


because she wanted to fly


and now she really, really does.

Wednesday, June 16

Wild Things



The kids were climbing in a tree at Brook's house yesterday.

Oh, wait. Not really. These are actually cheetahs and they are really wild. The closer I got the more they growled at me, but they did take a moment to introduce themselves.




Meet Jelly.








And Ron.



:-)



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Our yard sale is this weekend so after that I'll be able to breathe again and hopefully be back to posting a bit more regularly.

Friday, June 11

It's Loose


While tooth-brushing this morning,
Evan said one of his bottom teeth hurt.

And sure enough, it was wiggly.

He's finally got his first loose tooth!!

Thursday, June 10

Birthday Business


Both the kids' birthdays are this summer: Evan in July and Chloe in August. So we've been trying to figure out what to get them this year and also what to tell others when they inevitably start asking.

I thought if I blogged about it, it would help me. Here's what they are into right now.


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Evan loves Legos.

He especially loves Star Wars Legos like droids and ships. (He plays the Lego Star Wars video game with Todd and has only seen bits and pieces of Episode IV -- keeping it kid-friendly here. Because of that, he doesn't know yet that Darth Vader becomes good later on, and is sort of "scared" of him. Sort of.)

He loves Star Wars stuff that isn't Legos too.

He says he wants to collect Lego Creator sets. These are just small containers of about 40 pieces with instructions for three different models using those pieces. We've gotten him two other sets like this for previous birthdays and he really wants more.

He has an interest in any set involving building -- K'nex, Magnetix, Lego Technic, and things with gears.

A love of Superman has developed recently. (He learned about Superman from a comic-type book at the library and has never seen the movies.) He says he would love to be able to dress up like him or have a Superman action figure. Do they even make those little pajama sets with the velcro cape anymore??

He has expressed an interest in piano lessons. I have a really beat up copy of the John W. Schuam Pre-A piano course book, but a new one would be a treasure to Evan. It has a white, green and black cover.

His favorite book we've read so far has been Stuart Little. It's at the library, but there is something special about owning your favorite ones.

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Chloe loves animals, especially horses, rabbits and dogs. She has a few realistic plastic animals (similar to Schliech but not that brand) and really likes when she has a "family" of something -- a mom, dad and baby.

She loves drawing. We have all kinds of art supplies (pencils, markers...) but we always need new spiral bound blank drawing sketchbooks or Dover coloring books with the realistic pictures in them.

A new Doodle Pad would be great. Our very old one is ready for the garbage can. It was travel sized and so well loved.

Thomas the Train is still a favorite. We collect the wooden track sets (we don't often buy the 'Thomas brand' stuff) and lots of brands are compatible with what we have especially things like tunnels and bridges.

She would like an umbrella of her very own.

She plays with Playmobil toys quite often and loves the horses and colts best -- any addition to this collection would be a lovely treat.

Hair bows and clips are something she treasures, preferably small-ish and sparkly, but not princess-y.

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They both love puzzles (preferably with realistic or artistic pictures instead of cartoons). Evan is doing ones with about 60 pieces and Chloe 30).

They both love exploring outside and would love things like a butterfly net, magnifying glass or field guides about birds, trees or flowers.

They both love Mary Poppins the movie and also the soundtrack, neither of which we own yet.

They both love Matchbox cars. They play with them everywhere -- inside, outside, in the rice box, on the car ramp downstairs.... Can't get enough of these.

They both love books, although I don't know what to put on a list since we frequent the library weekly and find most of what we want there. One book I adore from my own childhood that none of our local branches has is Miss Suzy about a squirrel. I should find that one.

They both have plenty of clothes right now, but here are there sizes anyway:
Evan wears size 5 (not 5T) pretty comfortably and sometimes a 6 depending on if the brand runs small. His shoe size is 11. His favorite colors are green and brown.
Chloe wears size 3t comfortably in shirts and is ready for 4t in pants. Her shoe size is 8!! (finally growing!!) Her favorite colors are ... loud and flashy ;-)

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Alright, that was actually helpful to me. Hopefully to some of you too!

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Thursday, June 3

Dozers

Sometimes they play side by sidewithout talking to or watching each otherand they still end up doingthe exact same thing.

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Wednesday, June 2

The Bike

As it turns out, the bike we originally bought for Chloe was a lemon. All three tries with the same model of bike. So we decided to upgrade and avoid futher frustrations, and we are so glad we did.



Now that Evan has a riding buddy they are out the door at 8am and never want to come in, even when it is 8pm and time for bed!

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